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Funeral Arrangements Set for Departed Soldier McConnell

People can pay respects in both of the Afghanistan veteran's hometowns, Parsippany and North Caldwell.

 

The final journey for U.S. Army Sgt. Derek McConnell is set. 

McConnell, who lived in Parsippany, died Monday of causes yet to be announced.

A viewing for the soldier will be held Monday, April 1, from 2 to 8 p.m. at the Par-Troy Funeral Home, 92 Parsippany Road, according to his mother, Siobhan Fuller-McConnell.

A funeral mass will be held in North Caldwell Tuesday, April 2 at 11 a.m., where he lived as a youth, at Notre Dame Roman Catholic Church, 359 Central Ave. 

McConnell, 23, was wounded in Afghanistan in July 2011, after being hit by an improvised explosive device while patrolling in the Zahri District in Kandahar. He lost his legs and suffered other serious injuries that kept him in recovery in Maryland for months. During that time, he withstood nearly three dozen surgeries. By the end of his life, he had been rehabilitated to the point where he could stand on crutches.

He returned to his Parsippany home to a hero’s welcome in late 2012.

By his side throughout his treatment were his mother and his high school sweetheart, Krystina Dressler of Fairfield. McConnell and Dressler were to have been married shortly; the couple competed against other military couples in "Operation Tie the Knot" and won a dream wedding in the online giveaway. In early March, Dressler posted about finding her wedding dress on her blog, Something That Can Never Be Stopped: Us.

Fuller-McConnell told Patch that a separate military ceremony will be held for her son as well, however, she added that details cannot be shared.

Burial will take place, not at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia, according to the grieving mother's post on the Team Derek Facebook page, but at the Holy Cross Cemetery in North Arlington.

As Fuller-McConnell put it, "He wanted to come home."

In lieu of flowers, she said her son "would have liked donations in his name to the following non-profits who gave him so much love and support":

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Siobhan

8:24 am on Saturday, March 23, 2013

Just so you know, he is now a Sergeant.

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Siobhan

8:26 am on Saturday, March 23, 2013

That was a beautiful write up. Thank you very much.

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ParResident

9:20 am on Saturday, March 23, 2013

He gave his life so we could have freedom. The ultimate sacrifice. My heart, my prayers go to Derek's family. Rest in peace Derek

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Beth Bluj

2:50 pm on Saturday, March 23, 2013

A true Hero. Derek inspired so many. God Bless.

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WCald MOM

8:46 pm on Saturday, March 23, 2013

Siobhan
Derek has truly climbed to glory. My heart breaks for you and your family.
We will pray for all of you for healing and peace.
The Meluso Family

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plaus1ble deni@bility

8:24 am on Sunday, March 24, 2013

Dereck, may you rest in peace. Our condolences to your family. You are in our prayers. Thank-you for protecting our country...from your friends south of jersey.

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CONCETTA BARNISH

1:21 pm on Monday, March 25, 2013

God be with his family, He is a hero and a angel in heaven and is with our Lord Jesus now. amen

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Antonio

10:40 pm on Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Rest in peace brother you have suffered much..

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gregory l. mitchell

4:54 pm on Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Sgt.Mc Connell,you have been an inspiration to all others, be it your comrades-in-arms or the civilian who never donned a uniform.You have accomplished more during the recovery in your life that most of us will ever come close too in our lives.Not to mention your professional military skills as the Army does not hand out those stripes unless one earns them!The selection to eternally rest here in Jersey as opposed to Arlington(which you rate of course) is in my opinion is a good decision as New Jersey is your home and all family and friends will now have a greater opportunity to visit.This is important! Respectfully,Former GY/SGT G.L.MITCHELL,G/2/25 4TH Marine Division,USMCR

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Zakia Lauriano

12:00 am on Thursday, March 28, 2013

Derek was one of my classmates in 07' and what fun we had. He had a laugh that was contagious and a smile that no one else can beat. He was so silly and full of life. I will miss him so much. R.I.P Derek. You are now an angel :)

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